Do you know of anyone who always blames someone else for their problems, They claim "its not their fault that they are unhappy in their job, don't earn enough money, didn't get enough education"… and so the story goes on.
On the other hand you most probably know someone who takes responsibility for their life no matter what gets thrown at them. They come from a different way of thinking looking for how they can find solutions and get the best results.
Be the driver of your life, not the passenger and stepUP and take ownership of your outcomes and what you want. The joy in your life will come from the journey you create whilst steering your bus in the direction you want to go to and most importantly have fun with it!!!